IS IT A MISTAKE TO LIVE TOGETHER BEFORE MARRIAGE?

DEAR DALI MAMA:

My boyfriend and I are going to move in together but my mother thinks it’s a mistake because “who wants to buy the cow when they can get the milk for free?” What do you think?

–Am I Making a Mistake? (United States)

DEAR AM I:

Are you a cow? If so, you’re an extremely literate bovine to be able to write such a clear and concise email. Ha ha.

I say you should do what is right for you. While some people think it’s a mistake to live together before marriage (I’m guessing your mother is worried your guy won’t want to commit if you’re living together), some might consider it a mistake to pledge one’s life and loyalty to someone they’re not sure they can get along with day in and day out over extended periods of time.

Follow your heart, my friend.

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