Ask Dali Mama

DEAR DALI MAMA:

I am a single would but would like to have sex again. It’s been a long time and I’m thinking maybe I should just have casual sex rather than continuing being celibate while waiting for the right person. Your thoughts?

–Getting Nun (Canada)

DEAR GETTING NUN:

I suggest taking matters into your own hands. Ha ha. And maybe getting a vibrator.

With the different diseases floating around as well as general weirdness, you might want to be careful whom you let into your life, much less your body. Also, people (particularly women) tend to take on a whole lot of energy from their sexual partners, so it can be somewhat unhealthy energetically as well as physically.

Of course, you’ll have to decide what’s best for you, but those are factors I would consider as you’re deciding.

Also, when you’re sexually satisfied (including with yourself) and your sexual energy is running smoothly, you will tend to attract people into your life, some of whom may be a better match for you for something more than for simply sex.