Ask Dali Mama

DEAR DALI MAMA:

I am a woman dating a man with a curved penis. Sometimes certain internal spots get irritated because of the constant pressure on certain areas because of the curvature. Your suggestions?

–Sore (Canada)

DEAR SORE:

Perhaps you could play with different positions and switch things up regularly so that the same spots are not affected by too much pressure over time. For example, maybe you could do cowgirl one time, then reverse cowgirl the next time, then the coital alignment technique the next. Fortunately, there’s a multitude of different positions you can try and experiment with. Switch things up a lot and that will not only alleviate the issue of too much pressure on certain areas but might be some fun variety for your sex life as well. Have fun exploring!

Your guy might want to see his doctor as well and make sure there is nothing physical going on that can easily be addressed. For example, sometimes scar tissue or certain conditions can cause penile curvature, which can sometimes increase over time.