WHAT ABOUT HAVING SEX JUST FOR ENJOYMENT?

01 Jan 2018 Leave a comment

by askdalimama in Sex, Uncategorized Tags: , , , , , , , ,

DEAR DALI MAMA:

I’m thinking about enjoying sex without any love involved for the first time. I’ve always said I could only have sex when I loved someone but do you think I’m capable of having sex just for enjoyment?

— Thinking (France)

DEAR THINKING:

You might be capable of it, but does that mean that you should? Only you can decide what’s right for yourself, but pay attention to the energy of people with whom you engage in sex with. When you have intercourse, and especially when you have an orgasm, your energy field is much more open to the energies of your partner—good and bad.

If you want sex for enjoyment, consider having fun with yourself or maybe exploring a new toy (love the eroscillator—see www.eroscillator.com). You can enjoy yourself and not worry about breaking someone’s heart or about getting an STD!!!

HOW DO I STOP THINKING ABOUT AN OLD LOVE?

27 Oct 2014 Leave a comment

by askdalimama in Love & Relationships Tags: , , , , , , , ,

DEAR DALI MAMA:

I can’t stop thinking about a man I dated (only briefly years ago). How do I stop this unhealthy behavior?

–Heartbroken (Brazil)

DEAR HEARTBROKEN:

It’s great that you recognize continuing to think about this man is not healthy for you. Validate the time you had together and let that be enough as the gift it was. Give thanks for the experiences you had together and for what you each learned from each other, then make room for someone new to come into your life.

If you want, I also encourage you to get rid of any old photos of him or momentos of your time together to make room for new romance and love.

Maybe you could even join some singles clubs or host a singles party or something and get the word out to your friends you’re ready to meet someone new in case they know someone you might hit it off with. Whether you hit it off romantically or not, it can be a lot of fun to make new friends and meet new people.

 

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