IF A PSYCHIC SAYS SOMETHING WILL HAPPEN AND IT DOESN’T, IS THAT PERSON NOT A GOOD PSYCHIC?

DEAR DALI MAMA:

My psychic told me something would happen a certain way but it didn’t. Does that mean he’s not a good psyschic?

—Wondering (Brazil)

DEAR WONDERING:

That doesn’t necessarily mean that he’s not a good psychic. It’s just indicative of how energies can shift according to the choices that you and others make. For example, a psychic can tell you that you can be an Olympic athlete. Maybe that person sees you have the capability. However, if all you do is eat pizza and refuse to get off the couch, you are unlikely to become an Olympic athlete.

Then again, if he is consistently way off base, he’s probably not a good psychic. Haha.

Ultimately, no one can predict the future because every choice we make can change the future. The best thing to do is decide what you want to create, make a plan on how to do so, and then do it!i

DOES ASTROLOGY REALLY WORK?

DEAR DALI MAMA:

Do you think astrology really works?

–Skeptical (New Zealand)

DEAR SKEPTICAL:

I do indeed. I too used to be skeptical before I researched astrology. Before, to me, astrology was just those 3-sentence bits you’d read in the newspaper for each sign. I tried it out, though, to see. I was blown away by how accurate my astrologer was. She knew very specific things, including timeframes of certain key events, solely from my chart.  Of course, it depends on the expertise of your astrologer as well as your compatibility with your astrologer to some extent.  

Keep in mind, however, that astrology is your tool, not your master. Your astrological chart does not definitively dictate your entire life. There is always free will and if you don’t like the energy of a situation that you’re in or that you’re headed towards, you can always shift the energy. 

WHY AREN’T MY SPIRIT GUIDES MORE CHATTY WITH ME?

Why is it that some spirit guides are so unhelpful or not forthcoming with any information at all?  As a clairvoyant, have you ever noticed this?  And if so, why do some people have guides that are continually like this and others don’t?

–Befuddled (Canada)

DEAR BEFUDDLED:

Spirit guides, like people, each have their own unique way of communicating, which can vary according to the person they’re communicating with or with what’s called for in each situation. Also, they must communicate in a way that does not interfere with their person’s free will or highest good.

Sometimes they do not explicitly communicate about things because it might create expectations where their person blocks the upcoming miracle or situation if they are told about it in advance out of nervousness or fear or simply misinterpreting the communication because of their own mental or energetic filters.

All spirits guides do communicate in some way if you ask for communication. Often, they communicate to people through their dreams where the person’s conscious, analytical mind can’t get in the way quite as much. Also, spirit guides often communicate to people but their communications might get interpreted as “having a hunch” or “getting a good or bad feeling about something” or getting an inspiration or an idea about something. Thus the person is getting the communication even if they don’t consciously recognize that their spirit guide was helping them out.

Even when you do not realize it, you are getting communication from your spirit guides as well as the information they are conveying, even if it is not on a fully conscious level. Start by communicating more with your spirit guides and getting to know each better on a daily basis, and your friendship and working relationship and communication will develop even further.

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF LOVE SPELLS?

DEAR DALI MAMA:

What do you think about love spells and do they work?

–Wanting Love (Brazil)

DEAR WANTING LOVE:

Although love spells do work sometimes, I do not recommend them nor do I perform them for clients that come for energy work. Doing love spells can interfere with a person’s free will, pulling a person’s energy or influencing it in a way that I don’t believe is ethical. Also, doing a love spell on someone is, I believe, creating unwanted karma for yourself.

Instead of doing a love spell, perhaps you might want to ask the Universe to bring into your life the person who is of your divine right. Also, create the energy first for yourself of love and a loving relationship with yourself in order to create the optimal energy for a relationship that matches this love vibration to come into your life. And, of course, do the practical basics such as getting out into the world (even through the Internet on an online dating site if that feels right to you) where people can meet you and have the opportunity to fall in love with you.

Validate the love you have, including for yourself, and even more love will find you in divine time.

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